{"id":5194,"date":"2026-08-22T10:55:37","date_gmt":"2026-08-22T14:55:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/journeytoyourwellness.com\/staging\/7166\/?p=5194"},"modified":"2026-08-22T12:35:01","modified_gmt":"2026-08-22T16:35:01","slug":"we-are-not-perfect-and-so-what","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/journeytoyourwellness.com\/staging\/7166\/we-are-not-perfect-and-so-what\/","title":{"rendered":"We are not perfect. And so, what?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"5194\" class=\"elementor elementor-5194\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d07fb49 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d07fb49\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-eec813d\" data-id=\"eec813d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-092adb8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"092adb8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\"><b>Why are we so afraid of not fitting into <\/b><b><i>society\u2019s box<\/i><\/b><b>?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\">A while ago, I came across a line from Leonard Cohen\u2019s song <i>Anthem<\/i> that stayed with me: <i><span style=\"font-family: 'Garet Bold'; color: #545454;\">\u201cThere is a crack in everything, that\u2019s how the light gets in.\u201d<\/span><\/i><i><\/i><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Sometimes, we all need to hear the right words at the right moment. For me, those words found me exactly when I needed them. They reminded me of something we all forget sometimes: We don\u2019t have to become the person society expects us to be. We don\u2019t have to follow a certain path, reach certain milestones, or fit perfectly into a box someone else created.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-55c6c1f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"55c6c1f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><span style=\"font-family: 'Garet Bold'; color: #545454;\">Childhood<\/span><\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-42a0fa4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"42a0fa4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">When I was little, I wasn\u2019t good at sports. All my classmates in elementary school were better than me at playing volleyball, running faster than me, or vaulting the buck better than me.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Despite the fact that I was good at other subjects such as grammar, reading, and writing in foreign languages, I almost always thought that something was wrong with me because of my weaknesses that were highlighted by my bad grades in sports class.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-41bdf1f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"41bdf1f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><span style=\"font-family: 'Garet Bold'; color: #545454;\">Imperfection<\/span><\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e757d12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e757d12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>As we grow up and become adults, it is the same. We go through similar situations.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3483786 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3483786\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6d98824\" data-id=\"6d98824\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-62b2278 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"62b2278\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\"><b>We all tend to find our imperfections within us. Society wants to point out what we aren\u2019t good enough at, regardless of all the other things we thrive in<\/b>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-675c665 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"675c665\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3e0de02\" data-id=\"3e0de02\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8112502 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8112502\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">Despite the efforts we make to fit in this world, we sometimes come to the impression that we don\u2019t fit <em>in the box<\/em>.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\">No matter how good-looking you are, how many good grades you have, or how good of an employer or entrepreneur you are, there is always some room left for self-criticism imposed by society.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\">We often fall into the abyss of finding our physical flaws or professional weaknesses. And here, I am not trying to say that there is something wrong if you want to be more fit or want to improve your labor or entrepreneurial skills.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-844759f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"844759f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><span style=\"font-family: 'Garet Bold'; color: #545454;\">Standards<\/span><\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f99f4a2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f99f4a2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>My dilemma here is that we don\u2019t have to fit into society\u2019s standards.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dae3a46 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"dae3a46\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\"><b>We are all programmed by society to believe that we are wrong because we don\u2019t fit into a template, that there is a unique size and if you don\u2019t fit it, bad luck, you are out.<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6987e19 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6987e19\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-88ee65b\" data-id=\"88ee65b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d5ab9c5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d5ab9c5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">We are all different. We can\u2019t be good at everything; we can\u2019t do everything just because other people are doing it.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\">You are you, with your strengths and weaknesses, with your goods and bads, with your ups and downs. And this is exactly what defines your uniqueness: the imperfection you bring to the world.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Imagine a world where we all look the same, dress the same, think the same, etc\u2026 How boring would that be? I don\u2019t even wanna imagine.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0a02596 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0a02596\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Pressure<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cc58e86 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"cc58e86\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">\u00a0<b>From the moment you wake up until you reach your bed to go back to sleep, there is a continuous strive that comes from our external world in \u201chow to\u201d and \u201chow not to.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5f013b0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5f013b0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">This, unfortunately, leads you to believe that you aren\u2019t enough, don\u2019t have what you are supposed to have, you are not where you should be, or you don\u2019t have the body you should have.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">So, who is to tell us all those things?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-50ffea9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"50ffea9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Authenticity<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-51f61ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"51f61ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">Ok, I agree with us being inspired by everything we see, hear, or read, but make your own choices in the end. You know what\u2019s better for you, what food makes you feel better, how to learn faster and more efficiently, what clothes fit you better.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\">What\u2019s good for me might not be good for you. So don\u2019t copy me just because what I am wearing is in trend right now. And this applies to every life situation.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-17bf530 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"17bf530\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\"><b>We tend to copy each other so we can fit into the standards \u201crequired\u201d by the world around us. And if we don\u2019t, we might lose chances to be cool or to be accepted \u2014 this is how most of us think.<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8556cdc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8556cdc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">Stop making everything in your life meet the world\u2019s expectations of you. Explore your undiscovered authenticity instead.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a8dd33e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a8dd33e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Illusion<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d41221d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d41221d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Moreover, since AI was born, we are bombarded even more by fake content. Our human culture is changing. Don\u2019t trust what\u2019s \u201cout there.\u201d That sexy voice you hear telling you that you don\u2019t fit in the \u201cbox\u201d might not even be real.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-75ec35b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"75ec35b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-16398ab\" data-id=\"16398ab\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0ce573f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0ce573f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\"><b>Don\u2019t compare your imperfections to a world where perfection means being all the same.<\/b><b><\/b><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\"><b>Acceptance<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2fdaec3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2fdaec3\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-31084eb\" data-id=\"31084eb\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aea73d2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"aea73d2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">Accept your flaws and weaknesses. Improve them if you can, but don\u2019t feel less if you can\u2019t. We are not meant to triumph all in the same way at the same time.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Forget about the marketing world that strikes you and trying to sell you something from the first moment of the day when you open your eyes, touch your cellphone, or check your email.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Find what incites you the most and trust your intuition.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2a48f1c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2a48f1c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-676e910\" data-id=\"676e910\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3960f47 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3960f47\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\"><b>Social media is trying hard to show you every day a different way of living that is much better than yours right now. <\/b><b><\/b><b>Influencers attempt to tell you what you should eat, drink, wear, believe, think, love, or not.<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e0b22ce elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e0b22ce\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4939457\" data-id=\"4939457\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5b81eb7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5b81eb7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">We need to accept ourselves how we are. 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